人生总归是要经历经历失恋的，因为失恋是为了让你找到更好的。
The whole life is to experience the experience of lovelorn, because the love of love is to make you find better.
本以为校服到婚纱是时间和信任问题，可是时间久了，渐渐地我们没有任何的亲情作保障，彼此的距离就这样一天天打败给了现实，身边的每个人的经历其实都是一个很好的例子，兜兜转转，重复着历史。
This is the time to dress uniforms thought and trust, but a long time, gradually we don't have any affection for security, the distance of each other on such a day defeat to reality, everyone's experience is a good example of twists and turns, repeat the history.
母亲是个很乖巧的女儿，至少外婆说什么就是什么，自己也是很努力，小时候的母亲上学成绩是优秀的，但是出于家里有个外婆从她哥哥家抱过来的哥哥要上学，母亲15岁就辍学，到织布厂里面上班维持舅舅的上学，年纪轻轻的母亲，在那个懵懂的年代，因为外婆在旁边想让母亲和舅舅凑一对，什么都不懂得母亲就这样为舅舅付出了五年的青春，等舅舅上学出来之后，舅舅说出心中所想，用近亲不能在一起的理由，委婉的拒绝了养了他二十几年的母亲的念想，可是在上学需要母亲帮助的时候，却自私的接受了我母亲对他的付出。还好，母亲还是等到了，等到了更好的父亲，父亲是个老实人，因为个子不高，家里很穷，年长母亲五岁，父亲母亲都是务实的人，为了让子女有更好的生活，含辛茹苦的将我们姐妹养大，父亲常年漂泊在异国，只为了赚更多的钱，让我们的家变得更好。
My mother is a very clever girl, what is what my grandmother said at least, he is very hard, when the mother school grades are excellent, but for a grandma came from her brother's brother to go home, the mother left school at 15, to maintain the uncle weaving factory inside the work school. The young mother, at that time ignorant, because the grandmother beside mother and uncle want to get together, what all don't understand the mother so uncle gave five years of youth, after school uncle, uncle to say what you think, with close relatives can not reason together, refused he raised more than 20 years of mother's thought, but in need of help the mother to go to school, but the selfish accepted me to pay for his mother. Okay, wait until the mother was, the better father, father is an honest man, because not tall, the family was poor, the old five year old mother, father and mother are pragmatic, in order to let the children have a better life, we will raise the bear bitter hardships sisters, father perennial wandering in a foreign country. In order to make more money, let the home become better.
话说回来，我的那个舅舅，先是为了城镇户口，与一位长相一般的女生定亲之后，遇到了一位貌美如花且城镇户口的舅妈，毅然决然抛弃未婚妻，娶了舅妈，本以为可以带着年迈的奶奶过上了幸福的生活，却因为一身疾病，上帝剥夺了年轻的生命，那位貌美的舅妈带了我那小哥哥改嫁了，之后又离婚了，亦是凄凉的一生。
Anyway, that my uncle, the first is to urban hukou, and a general appearance of the girls engaged, met a beautiful and Hukou aunt, resolutely abandoned his fiancee, married aunt thought with old grandmother lived a happy life, but because of a body disease, God deprived young life, the beautiful aunt took my little brother remarried, after a divorce, is also a desolate life.
在这段脆弱的爱情史里面，母亲算是幸福的，至少不管生活遇到什么，父亲是他的支柱。还有俩个宝贝女人做她的贴心棉袄。还记得高一那会儿，语文老师说，父母辈是最辛苦的，上面有老的下面有小的，回去后躺在母亲怀里，就问母亲，母亲脸上漾着笑花，幸福地说道：“我很幸福的，有爱我的老公和俩宝贝女儿，爸妈身体也很好哇。”母亲这辈子是辛苦的，亦是幸福的。
In this fragile history of love, mother is happy, at least no matter what life meets, father is his pillar. There are two baby woman her intimate jacket. Remember that a high moment, Chinese teacher said, parents are the most difficult, there are old here are small, back lying in his mother's arms, the mother asked the mother, her smiling face flower, happily said: "I am very happy, love my husband and two baby my daughter, the body is also very good." Mother's life is hard and happy.
其实，我是和母亲很像的一个人，在我懵懂的青春里，也遇到了让我付出整个青春的人，俩边家长在他上本科的时候都见过面了，都是蛮喜欢的，但是就在他告知考研成功的那个早上，他的母亲明确说不同意我们俩的`婚事了，一下子，本来是很开心的事情，晴天霹雳，说辞是算命先生说我对他不好，在我们谈了三年的时光里都没有这个说法，但是考研之后就出来了，人都是自私，而他也摇摆不定，不知道怎么办。
In fact, I am a person just like mother, in my ignorant youth, have let me pay the youth, when both sides parents in his undergraduate are met, are quite love, but in the morning he told his mother of success, clear that do not agree with our marriage, all of a sudden, it is fun, a bolt from the blue, rhetoric is the fortune teller said I wasn't good for him, we talked in this statement are not three years, but after the examination came out, people are selfish, but he is also wavering don't know what to do.
虽然我很理解他的摇摆不定，但是却是不能够原谅的，我为你付出了整个青春，本以为校服到婚纱只是时间长短问题，但是现实是你的摇摆不定让我对你失望至极，我想要的很简单，至少在我需要你的时候给我一个肩膀，整个事件中，我没有一点点的错，却被你母亲说成这样，你母亲在哭闹的时候，至少有你的父亲在拍拍肩膀，那我呢，你在哪里？
Although I understand his wavering, but is not able to forgive, I pay the youth for you, this is just the time length to that school dress, but the reality is you swing to let me disappointed, I want very simple, at least when I need you to I am a shoulder, the entire incident, I did a little bit wrong, but your mother said that, your mother crying when, at least your father patted the shoulder, then I do, where are you?
有缘无份或许就是说的我们，在整个青春的记忆里，朋友们对我们这对寄托着对校园爱情的祝福，却在这个毕业季，紫藤花开的时节里，说声再见了。
Who is perhaps that we, in the memory of youth, of our friends the sustenance of campus love blessing, but in this graduation season, wisteria flowers of the season, say goodbye.
那时的我不知道怎么面对未来的生活，亲爱的，你出现了，那个等了我整个青春的人，是你一直默默在我的身后，坚持着，记得你和我说过一句话，我最喜欢那首《终于等到你》，还好没放弃我。
I do not know how to face the future life, dear, you appear, so that my entire youth, are you always silently behind me, hold on, remember you and I said a word, I love the song "until finally you" Okay, I didn't give up.
一切的失恋是为了更好地那位出现。
All the lovelorn is for the better.
致那些和我一样为了爱情，付出整个青春的人。
To those who are like me for love, to pay the whole youth.