Hello, everyone. Today, the topic of my speech is: friendship.
Whether sentimental verse, beautiful article, or the joy of leisure, what all can't take the place of close friendship. This is Russia - the famous writers pushkin said a word. Friend, have you ever thought about, honest valuable, the friendship is the normal psychological need. A famous British writer made such an analogy: "if you have an apple, I have an apple, each other exchange, so, everyone has only one apple; if you have a thought, I have a thought, exchange each other, and each of us has two ideas, even more than the two thoughts." It is enough to prove, the friendship makes one share more joy and happiness, help resolve problems and sad, also can promote our progress.
Among friends, however, must be in trouble. Can not stand the test of not a true friendship. Therefore, the most precious friendship is this: when a friend need to help them with sincere friendship to remove the worry, dissolve the depressed, build up confidence and overcome the difficulties.
Sincere friendship is what everyone desire, but what kind of friendship is sincere? Is genuine equality between friends, help mutual understanding, have a common pursuit. "Sincerity is the hotbed of friendship." We only in sincere to establish on the basis of equality friendship and keep it up. Help mutual understanding is the most basic content of friendship. Dickens once said that forgiveness is a noble quality, a noble virtue. China has an old saying well said "simultaneous corresponding, sympathies." Good, common pursuit is spiritual bond, unite the people closely together.
Can make the miles of space that intervene between a man and close friendship, the friendship can make our days together as flowing, the friendship can leave on the way we passed the deep foot sakura when young time of reincarnation gently slip from our side, leaving traces of is meaningful. That is precious memories of Egypt
Friend, please treat every friend around you, that is always sincere in your spiritual wealth.
The word “friendship” covers a wide range of meanings. But it should be helpful, loyal and sincere.
Everyone needs friendship. No one can sail the ocean of life single-handed. We need help from, and also give help to, others, good friends are always ready to help you. Like the saying goes “ A friend in need is a friend indeed”, treasure is not always a helpful friend, but a helpful friend is always treasure.
With friendship, life is happy and harmonious. Without friendship, life is sad and unfortunate. A friend is a listener when we meet with troubles. A friend is also a companion to share our happiness. With the same goal, we encourage each other to pursue our dreams.we should cherish our valuable friends for ever.
But how to make friends and keep the friendship.
Firstly,Talk To Lots of People.
Make small talk with the people you meet. Break the ice by asking them questions like "Where do you live?" or "What do you do?". Compliment them, by saying "I like your shoes. Where is it from?". This is a conversation starter and everyone likes to be complimented!
Then,Spend Time Together.
After you've identified some potential friends, it's time to make a small gesture. Send a birthday card. Invite her out to dinner.Let us know what we are interested each other. Activities such as shopping, going to the cinema and discussing the film afterwards, or reading the same books are helpful at this stage of a friendship because they allow you to discover each other's attitudes and find some common ground.
At last,Make Friends Your Priority.
If having friends is important to you, you must make time for it in your busy schedule. Make friendship a priority in your life. At the same time, be willing to take some risks in your quest for new friends. Tell yourself you've got nothing to lose, and the lifelong benefits of friendship to gain.
Friendship is a kind of human relations. It is a human instinct to make friends.When in trouble, we need friends to offer us help, support and encouragement. With success achieved, we also need friends to share our joys.
Friendship is also one of the greatest pleasures that we can enjoy. It implies loyalty, cordiality, sympathy, affection,and readiness to help. No man can make the most of his life without carefully and conscientiously striving to win the right kind of friends as he goes along.
Knowing how valuable friendship is, we should be very careful in making friends. Real friends are those who have good character, superior ability and kindness of heart. Real friends can share all our sorrows and double all our joys.While making friends, we should take care to select those who have such fine qualities. Then we should treat our friends with courtesy, be careful not to interfere unreasonably with them,and not to ridicule their proceedings. We should forgive their failures and do our best to help them. In short, when we have established friendship, we ought to cherish and treasure it by means of words and deeds. Only thus, can we develop real friendship and keep the sacred lamp of friendship burning all our life.
Nobody can get through life without friends. I'm no exception. I met my best friend Sunny in a cram school during our last year of junior high school. We prepared for the high school entrance examination together and often discussed our lessons as we were studying after school. Sunny is a smart and well-mannered girl. Not only is she as expert at studying, but she also knows how to have fun. Every time I am blue, she soothes me and helps me find solutions to my problems. I'm glad that I have a friend who is like an intimate sister. I value our friendship and hope that it will last forever.
For interpersonal relationships, I gradually summed up one of the most in line with the principle of my nature, that is, mutual respect and affinity. I believe that all good friendship is formed naturally and not deliberately obtained. I also think that no matter how good of friends should have a distance, the friendship is too often crowded empty.
Get along with others, especially if you are relaxed, in a relaxed and feel of the real lessons learned, I bet you, you must have encountered the same, even if you are engaged in different occupations.
Philosophers, poets, musicians, artists have their own jargon. Sometimes, the different meaning of the same jargon said. Sometimes, speaking with a different meaning of jargon.
but can not climb the hills, the gap between the soul of it is insurmountable. Peer jargon we say, spit out the voice of a friend.
Among the most profound distinction is not professional, and in the soul.
Professor of Communication to see the bookstore to sell the success of surgery patients like best-selling book, I feel funny. A person has a good impression on a person, and he or she paid a friend, or
interested in something, try to do it successfully, it would have been natural. Do not memorize the main points on the cross can not be friends, do not beg for tips on the do not spiritual cause, we can see how the lack of real emotion really interested. However, there is no real emotion, how it will be true friends? Not really interested in, how will it really cause? That being the case, why should diligently and success in communication? That of course there are obvious utilitarian motives, but it is quite apparent deeper reason is that spiritual emptiness, then hid shortcut to the crowd and affairs. I do not know how, only know that if this kind of communication at home, I approached him, I will definitely be more lonely, if such a successful stand in front of me, I will definitely be even more boring.
Study, such as making friends, but at least one exception is the time to teach the kind of book arts friends.
Personals surgery hing real friends perish.
Friendship is tolerance. For this reason, a friend once enemies, it is often irreversible, the differences that they must be very serious, and has reached the point where can not be condoned.
Only between good friends can be such a thing occurred in Dear John, in the past between the more difficult, more difficult to repair the cracks now, and seems to maintain an acquaintance too unnatural. As for those who have only acquaintance, handed over the case of non-payment of the two may be, it is not a Dear John.
Extraversion personality people easy access to many of my friends, but always a few true friends. Introversion are lonely, once friends, often is true.